What are you looking at?

When you are learning to drive a car, you realize very quickly that the car will go exactly where you are looking…

If you are looking straight down the road, the car will go straight down the road.

If you are looking at the ditch, you will end up in the ditch.

We are taught that if we want to avoid an accident, we need to look where we want to go, not at what we are trying to avoid.

This same advice works very well for all areas of your life.

*Always look at where you want to go…not at what you are trying to avoid.

*If you want to get out of debt, look at financial success, not back at your debt.

*If you want to lose 100 pounds, look at your ideal weight, not the weight you are trying to lose.

*If you want to be successful in business, worry about your own business, rather than becoming obsessed about who is more successful than you are.

So, if your life feels off track one of the best questions you can ask yourself is, “what am I looking at?”.

*Am I looking at how hard things are or am I looking at the destination?

*Am I focused on my youth or am I intently looking at all my lines, wrinkles, aches and pains?

*Am I focused on everything that makes me depressed and upset or am I choosing to focus on even the smallest thing to be grateful for?

Yes, asking yourself, “what am I looking at,” is a quick and easy interruption that can help you refocus on the solution you need, not the problem you are encountering.

*It can help you to ignore the distractions and drama and stay focused on your destination.

Use the following affirmations to remind yourself what you need to be focused on so that you are moving away from the ditches of life and staying on a clear path…

I focus on solutions, rather than the problem

I ignore distractions and remain focused 

I am focused

I visualize the results I desire

It is easy to get pulled into looking at the distractions, train wrecks, and drama that line the road to success. 

Putting your energy into looking at those things takes away from your momentum that you need to keep moving forward. 

So don’t be a “rubbernecker”

Keep your eye on your destination

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Lisa Thomas is a transformational leader, gifted healer and intuitive coach. She integrates business with her natural gifts to help her clients embrace all of life.

Working with talented people from all walks of life, to help them get their gifts and talents into the world in a more significant way; she believes everyone deserves to be seen, known and heard for who they are.

Lisa is devoted to reconnecting people to their Soul’s purpose, so they can experience more love, joy and financial abundance.

She has helped thousands of people worldwide to achieve their business and life goals by releasing Inherited Emotional DNA, such as fear of success, fear of failure, anxiety, procrastination, fear of public speaking, false money beliefs, relationship drama, and business stagnation.

She does this within her small-group programs, private coaching and Meditation Healing Activation products. She lives in Los Angeles, California, with her husband and family.

She has been featured on Good Morning LaLa LandAllie & YouDare to DreamInspired Conversations, as well as other shows and podcasts. Her book, Mistakes Into Money, will be published in Summer 2019.

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